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Saturday 18 June 2011

Crystal - the epitome of friendship


The sun may have been up today and shining, but the morose, ill me refused to cheer up, still in sync with the contrasting weather of the previous day. And I continued to remain most of the time under self-confinement.

But a pleasant call from one of my better friends with whom I share a unique bonding, truly made my day.
This came to light to her with a FB status of mine that read "My life = a total screw up." 

Her name is Crystal, more about our fascinating friendship on another post (Permission Granted right !!). In time, it has been very difficult to be in touch with her, with her work-related commitments seeing her fly out of the country more often than not. So calling her was out of the question too as she never kept a number, until when she is India which I believe is subject to frequent changes.

It was another matter she could initially not call up, as my cell has been switched off most of the time since last afternoon. Reason being, I was/still am totally disgruntled with an inconsiderate response to my plight by a senior at my workplace. Call, she did, when she spilled the beans to me on that particular wall status and I kept my cell on for a while. It was really thoughtful and sweet of her, to cheer up my mood with the lovely call. 

Crystal, I know how time is money for you (pardon me, if I have worded it wrongly), but how you managed that half an hour for me is very appreciable (trust your important conference that followed went well). This justifies your presence in my FB Album - 'Friends Forever' despite the fact our meetings and spending quality time together have been few, To a certain mutual pal, the previous line may be uncalled for, but I felt it was necessiated under the unique circumstances our friendship took root, branched out and continues to grow.



I have this tendency to cringe and get cranky whenever I fall ill and make this public on FB too - which is an extension of my life as Twitter is tending to be nowadays. And she, with her lovely, cheerful comments when am down and with such depressing statuses up on FB, puts in her extra bit to lighten up my mood, to a fair measure of success, as today :)

Crystal, I could not thank you enough with your call for making me feel 'so special' and 'part of your life' but in my own special way, I am doing my bit. You truly are an epitome of friendship to me, and many others, for sure !! Keep up the good vibes !!

Wednesday 15 June 2011

A Hope of Love Stays Afloat




He may not be the archetypal guy that every girl dreams of in their lives, but he had a uniqueness about him that made him endearing.

She was the girl, on first sight anyone would fall for. She had that glint in her eye, the beguiling charm that would get any guy curious to know her.

Emilio was a regular commuter on the 9.15 am Volvo from the bus terminus at Margao to Panjim. A wiry, bespectacled lad, more often than not he took to his favourite window seat. The hour long journey usually would elapse with him lost in his thoughts staring outside the window or plugged into music.

But the other week, with the weather outside dreary and pouring its torrents, and having left his cell ear-plugs behind, he felt bored stiff and quite restless looking around him until he saw her.

She boarded the packed bus at the Pirni bus-stop, Nagoa and tried to make her way forward as urged by the conductor ‘mache fuddem voch bai’. Somehow she managed to hold on to a few heavy tomes in one hand, with her umbrella tucked under the arm and with the free hand holding on to a seat handle-bar.  

That was when he saw her. She stood facing him. Her cute and innocent face looked noticeably troubled. Quickly realizing her predicament of spiteful men standing either side of her, the gentlemanly guy offered his seat to her.

“Young lady, you may have my seat,” he said
“No it is okay,” she manages a sweet smile and replies.
But I insist!! And he gets up and with a wave of his left hand motions her to take his seat.
Gracious at his thoughtful gesture and giving him a broadened smile, she brushes past him as they swap places.

He feels a sensation run through him – the touch, and the scent of a woman. Wow, he thought and sheepishly grinned.

The elderly lady, who was seated beside him until then, was observing minutely the chain of events, and catching his reaction, winked at him.

“O my, he thought. Not a granny for heaven sakes.” He did not know she had seen his reaction and thought she was flirting with him.

He overhears the grey-haired, wizened lady whisper into the girl’s ear. “Isn’t he such a sweetheart?”

“I guess,” she mumbles back and coyly smiles to herself and then looks up at him and they exchange awkward glances.

The bus finally reaches Panjim and the passengers begin to alight from the bus, but his gaze stays transfixed on hers. Was that mutual love on first sight?

In minutes, the bus is empty but for them, and the conductor checking into the accounts of his ticket collection. A few moments’ passes by and the petite lass lowers her pretty eyelashes, a tad embarrassed, with her cheeks flushing a pinkish hue, as she quietly makes a move out from the bus.

Emilio follows her out and blurts, “May I know your name? “ Brushing aside her curls, and turning her head over her shoulder momentarily, she replies shyly, “may be another time.”

He stood rooted to the spot watching her vanish into the morning bustle of students and professionals, scuttling to their destination in the receded rains which still held the premonition of more showers with overcast skies.

He still could not let the thought of her escape his mind while he took the City bus to work. Through the day in office, try as he could, he was unable to let the distraction of day-dreaming about her go. And this had a negative impact on his creative thought process at work. Citing a sudden stomach upset as an excuse, he decided to leave for home at noon.


The weekend went by, and the Monday morning blues greeted him. As usual, he boarded his regular bus and took his customary seat leaning against the window, wondering if he would ever meet the charming girl again. Tiredness of a late night party the previous night and a mild hangover took its toll and his drooping eyes closed. From seeing her in his reveries, he now found her enter his sub consciousness too. He felt her perfume intoxicate his nostrils and loved the feeling. Suddenly he felt a soft tap on his shoulder. Was he actually dreaming? He pinched himself, opening his bleary eyes to an unexpected shock and a pleasant surprise. Emilio could not believe what or rather, who he was seeing. It was her. The same girl he offered his seat to in the bus the other day. She sat down on the empty seat beside him and flashed him her most glistening smile.

Emilio was now fully-awake and sat up nodding at her presence next to him and uttered, “Hello” with a knowing look.

She extended her right hand in greeting and replied, “Hi, I am Amanda, it was really nice of you the other 
day ….”

Feeling the delicate, warm handshake gave Emilio a strange, tingling sensation. He simply said, “Pleasure to have met you ….” Erm, he quickly realized his mistake and felt like a geek. Correcting his reply, he said, “It was what was expected from a man.” “By the way, I am Emilio, he added as an afterthought.”

Taking no notice what he may have earlier said or how he may have felt, but visibly impressed to what he had just said, Amanda went further.  “The other day when we met, I was in a tearing hurry to attend to my class, besides, the impending rains ….”

This got the rather tongue-heavy Emilio talking. “Yes, I felt awkward when you made an abrupt dash out of the bus without saying a bye.”

Now, she felt apologetic. “I really did not mean to …. I am very sorry but ….”

Quickly he replied, “It is okay, I understand”. “By the way, I work as a journalist with a leading daily in Panjim, Emilio said, and took out his wallet from his back-pocket and fed out a visiting card from it and gave it to her.  

“Well, that is awesome. I am always in awe in what you guys do. Your curiosity, nose for news always has me in admiration. It must be quite the challenging profession, ain’t it not?” she raises an eyebrow and asks.  

Pleased by the respect she had to his ilk, Emilio replied, “Certainly is.” “What about you? What do you profess as?”

“Oh yes, I am a lecturer in the Arts Faculty at Dhempes, Miramar.”

“Right, that was what you had earlier said. You teach.” He now took notice of the few volumes peeping out of her shoulder bag which were of English Literature.

“You teach English at the college level isn’t it?”

 A surprised Amanda asks, “How did you guess?”

“Well, I just happened to notice Shakespeare, Milton ….looking out from your bag,” he stated.

“Ahh, right, the Smart Alec that you are,”  she gives him a smile.  

Emilio now was really talking. “Well, you know, I had taken English at the graduation level in my time from Chowgules.”

“Really?? It is good to know,” she replied.

Clearly, the literary-inclined minds were now getting into an engaging conversation.

But just then, the bus reached Panjim. And a loud female voice that said, Pavle ami Ponje,” made them realize it was time to part ways once again.

“Nice knowing you,” Amanda said giving him a winning smile and made her move out of the bus and into the teeming crowd outside.

“Right, do keep in touch, he called out after her.”

She simply waved a hand and disappeared from view.


Days passed into weeks and weeks into a month. He now grew restless; he was just missing her so much. Should he visit her college …where she taught and meet her? But would that not be lame? What would be his excuse for going there? He did not know anyone else, studying there or otherwise, apart from her.

His heart was so lost in hers that he went to the extent of trying to locate  her on facebook, orkut, google … No results …His only leads were her first name, where she taught, and possibly where she lived, Nagoa. All of which were of no help on the search engines.


On a Friday, Six months later … He gets a call. It is from an unknown cell number.  It is her voice.
She: Hi, is it Emilio? It is Amanda here.   
He: Yes, Amanda. How are you? Been a while, you know, since we last met
She: Yes, I do not live any longer in Nagoa. Regular long distance traveling was getting to be difficult and tiring. I have put up along with a couple of my friends at a rental flat in Miramar since the last many months. It is now very convenient for me. I only travel home for the weekend. And how have you been?
He: All is well my end, the usual.
She: Good to know. Sorry, had been busy re-locating and in all that hurry, misplaced your visiting card. It is unlike me to …She stops short, then adds, I did not even bother to visit your office.
He: Hey, that is okay. No need to feel bad. To tell you frankly, I was thinking of visiting your college too, but then thought otherwise. It may have been lame.
She: No, not at all. In fact, I would have been glad to have met you again, much sooner. I even told my staff friends about you. How chivalry still exists in this world. How about we meet at seven this evening at a nice place somewhere?
He: Well, that would be wonderful. How does CCD, Miramar sound to you?
She: That’s an idea!! May be, we could head out to the beach later.
He: (taking a flirtatious tone) I can already imagine the waves lapping at our feet as we walk by the shore-line with the gentle breeze wafting your long curls against mine.
She: (on cue) I am game for the teaser (and bursts out laughing)
He: That is a date then, at seven, this evening.
She: Done. Seeya soon.
He: Ciao. 


More than just a Trek/ Nature Trip at Bondla


As I had mentioned in an earlier post, the Bondla outing was more than just a trek/ nature trip. It mainly was a get-together for the participants who attended the National Himalayan Trekking Expedition with GHA last month. Hence, Bondla was the ideal place to have such a wonderful re-union. 

It was around, 1.30 am, I moved out of the zoo to a  vehicle that brought us our lunch and helped in carrying several plates and a large spoon towards the garden expanse where we lunched. The lunch was sumptuous and the servings would be more than one would expect, especially with the numbers, twice as less than expected. It was nice to see the GHA President, Pramod Kamat (with two of his friends), GHA Member, Mangirish Pai and his wife Sheela joining in by lunch time.

It seemed like the Gods were with us all through the outing, as when we trekked, it rained heavily thus making for a wonderful monsoonal trekking experience. As we reached the zoo, the rains receded, and by lunch, it stopped.

After lunch, it was time for fun and games, with the lively GHA Vice President, Vishwas Kadam (Apa) taking centre-stage. We began with Passing the Parcel in the light rains, which I eventually won beating Deepika at the end. Moments later, I was chaired by the celebrating guys for whom it was matter of 'The Male Ego.' The promised prize for the winner of the game was not to be, and I got the empty bottle. Duhhhhh !! Apa you betcha give my prize on the next trek.

Next, we played 'Dog & The Bone' which was hilarious as with the rains  pounding upon us and  the lush lawns we were all quavery with the chill and the ground rendered very slippery. Either side had 14 players, with some deciding not to play (such suckers) and taking refuge under their umbrellas or making a hasty retreat to our bus. Anyway, the fun we had slipping and sliding as our numbers were called out by the Ref (Apa) made for great entertainment. I especially could not hold back my laughter, when my good trekker buddy, Devang from our team, made a dash towards the bone (was a bottle) with an umbrella in hand. Reaching there, he flung aside his umbrella. I just could not control my laughter that I went on all fours and smacked the ground. Dunno, if anyone noticed me doing that :D Ohhh, I did contribute my bit to the team's cause. At the first opportunity of my number being called, I got a point. It was against my pal, Chandresh Revankar (with whom I trekked earlier in the day under my umbrella). I held my head-to-head record against him, as our next two duels ended in ties. He later on went to tell me, that of all people I had to get him. As according to him, I did not present him point-scoring opportunities. Well, he did scamper off with the bone in the first of our three face-offs, but I tackled him to the ground as he slipped only a few metres from home. Seeing the pattern, I decided to be extra cautious when my number would be subsequently called as running was next to impossible, and only more than a jog would do.  So my number, 13, indeed was to prove lucky. By the way, the result, went our way 10-6. It was on even keel until the half-way mark when our dogs (and bitches :P) cut loose. 

Stand-up kho-kho in a circular formation was the next game played. I joined only at the very end, but thoroughly enjoyed nonetheless. There was another game also played, something like a tag team game which was interesting. I did not participate in this game. 

It was disappointing that wonderful game ideas mooted by Devang, as Dumb Sharads did not enthuse any interest as such and a lot of quality time was wasted. Soaked to the bone and chilled to the spine, we clattered our teeth and trembled as we headed to our bus at around 4 pm. Sadly, there were no clicks taken as the rains did not present an opportunity with the well-being of ruining our cameras at stake. 

On our way back home, we stopped for tea at Ponda and continued our 'full on' fun in the bus with loony acts and wild singing.

As under our some pics taken by me (excepting that of my own pic) on our return trip home:


                   The beautiful Meg, fresh as a daisy after her shower :)


                                   They had a great time seated at the back !!




                              My good yo-man pal, Devang with Malikarjun (L)


                                           I think you know him well :)




                                               Anoop with his pal, Ashwini


        A Friendship Taken Shape - My new buddy, Virender with Ankita 


                                                   Robeen (L) with Saiesh


                                Apa with one of his crazy expression. LMAO 


Did he cry ??


                                        This girl, hehe, find her a sample :D


                   He maintained this posture for most of the return journey, I know of at least :)


                                           Mukesh & Apa full-on masti !!


                                     Apa & Robeen - Brotherly Love 


                                       Radha & Anoop - up to nataks :P 


                             The return bus journey really rocked with em :)

I was dropped back home at around six, carrying memories of one of my better 'get wet in the rains' experiences, and hope of many to come in the course of the season.  

Sunday 12 June 2011

A Visit to the Bondla Zoo

The trek eventually led the feisty, adventurous group to the Bondla Zoo. This was my second visit to the zoo, after five odd years. But my visit this time was more memorable, perhaps the encounters with the wild in their enclosures were more worthwhile. 

Our entry to the zoo led us first to the leopard enclosure. But the spotted animal was no where in sight. Our patience did yield dividends, as the wait was not all that long, as he strode confidently in our direction, least bothered to the attention he was getting. While we took the opportunity of capturing the spotted beauty on our cameras, we also did enjoy a few fun pics.



Leopard - smile Pleaseee :) 


                                                   The Spotted Leopard 


                                      With 'The Cats' outside the enclosure :P




This was to continue through the zoo visitations. From the leopard enclosure, moving ahead and on the other side, there were a herd of the stately Gaur, the pride of of Goa and the State animal chewing on tall, leafy green leaves in another enclosure. 



Gaur - State Animal of Goa



                                                                      Gaurs - Video 

A little up, was the Royal Bengal Tiger on his rounds. Watching him in admiration up close, was an exhilarating experience. 


The Royal Bengal Tiger - Taking his paces 


Giving me the look !!


Now, it was time to move on to the reptiles. To start with was, the King Cobra who was quite the recluse.  
He did raise his hood a few times when he felt threatened. It reasoned that it had to take the posture of self-defense as it was being provoked by one of my friends, Naresh, who wanted to have a good glimpse of the charming reptile and capture on his lens the majestic anterior portion of its body in his utmost pride. 



                                                  Am the King of my ilk !!


                                                    Reptilian Brethren 



                                                               This is mah Hood !!


Ahead, was another separate enclosure for the python who was resting, and at a distance from the onlookers, staying in the shadow, thus away from the spotlight. 




                                                                   A resting Python ....


There was also a reptilian residence with a series of small enclosures housing different species of the slithery creatures. 












Moving out from the reptilian household, I came across another enclosure with a pair of mugger crocodiles (Crocodylus palustris)  in muggy waters. What is interesting to note about crocs is that while they live both in water and land, they are not classed as amphibians but reptiles. 





                                                               A pair of Mugger Crocs 


Nearby, were enclosures for the deers. From the Sambhar to the rare Four-Horned Antelope (Choursingha), they were so beautiful. 



                                           A herd of lunching Sambhars



                                                             A relaxed Choursingha 


The porcupine too was quite a spectacle with its quills taking to one's fancy. I remember one of my friends pick up one of these sharp spines at a private trek at Bhagwan Mahaveer Wildlife Sanctuary a couple of years back as a souvenir. And I was hoping for one too back then. 




                                                 Commandment No. 11: Thou shalt not touch !!


There were other marvels in enclosures as the bear and the peafowl which I did not get to see as we were instructed to have our lunch which was ready. Besides, I felt low, as my camera batteries were exhausted and I was unable to borrow a pair of functioning batteries. Also, I have sighted these creatures in the last one year, at the Byculla Zoo and in the wild at Dandeli respectively. 

An hour spent at the zoo though  was both, enjoyable and educative. 






Saturday 11 June 2011

Bondla brings The Magic of Monsoonal Trekking Back

Been a few months now, as with other avid trekkers, we yearned for trekking in the rains when nature is at its best and the call to the great outdoors is very refreshing. What better than when three of the elements of nature - Earth, Wind and Water intoxicates the senses, and the Fiery Heat melts down to our relief.

Its almost been a week, but the memories of Communing with Nature, while celebrating World Environment Day in its wake at Bondla Wildlife Sanctuary was an unforgettable experience.

The Goa Hiking Association - organised trek which was restricted to those who attended the National Himalayan Expedition organised by them, to my surprise and disappointment elicited not too encouraging a response with only around 30 of the expected 60 odd (there were roughly 100 trekkers who attended the Himalayan Expedition) turning up. The weather may have seen the Rain Gods showering their blessings from the early hours of the day and the few days earlier cancellation of the certificate distribution for the Himalayan trekkers on the particular trek, may have made the others decide otherwise. If this be the case, it is really appalling to say the least. The 'Love of God' that we trekkers realize in 'Mother Nature', this was a blasphemy.  I still am chagrined by these so-called trekkers, most of whom I am sure came up North of the country, not to trek really, but to sight-see and say wow we experienced snow.So disgusting. Sheeeesh.

Going back to the trek held on Sunday, June 5,  the overcast conditions as I left home at quarter-to- nine that morn, was  a foreboding of an ideal monsoonal experience. It was a matter of minutes that thewalker found  strides of this fast walker had him reach the Mabai Hotel, Margao pick-up point. In time, few other trekkers came and we all eagerly waited for our bus that was coming from the other side of the State and picking up cheerful trekkers along the way. At 9.30 our bus came, and the few of us boarded the bus to enthusiastic greetings . We made another stop at Ponda to pick up a few more passengers, before we were finally dropped off at Usgao Tisk.

After a breakfast at one of the restaurants near to where our bus halted, our trek began along the asphalted road towards Bondla Wildlife Sanctuary. The rains began to build up as we walked up the road, and the umbrellas opened and the jackets were zipped up. Along the way, we asked the villagers, who directed us along the right path. I was up front with my trek pal, Chandresh Revankar and we were told in the course of the trek to take the middle path as the road forked into three (reminds me of a certain story, where three friends took different paths on a forked road that determined their destiny). Moving along, and in time, we sighted a lovely mountain at the distance that looked mystic and mysterious in the misty air. We were up ahead, with a few other guys who took in this wonderful sight with awe and admiration while the others gradually caught up with us.

With our trek leader catching up with us, our trek eventually resulted in a diversion to the left, off road and into the wild. We steadily made our ascent up a slope that wound its way up and further up as the rains began to measure up and throw up a challenge to us, not quite daunting but challenging nonetheless. At a particular point it became quite risky as the path was narrow and a false step could lead to our peril. The girl a little up ahead stumbled slightly that had me a bit worried about her and self, and take a little more cautious approach. Until then, I was contemplating on taking a picture of the the challenges posed by the treacherous terrain. While we moved up and away from there, safety wise things may have improved but we were now dodging murky, accumulated rain waters by stepping across protruding, larger stones as we could find. But eventually, we had to squelch our foot-wear across the muddy waters. Yuck, the muck, but what the heck !!

The few kilometres stretch of the trek may have not been tiring but a little challenging and a tad risky, but it did give us an opportunity to behold upon the sights and sounds that Mother Nature had to offer us.



                                                    The Kulio-Catcher :P


                                               Romancing Milipedes :)


                                           And the actual trekking begins !!



                                    The sweet Girisha leading the way ....


                           The ever-cheerful Meg leading her pack. I luv her verve :)


                                   Yes, I love to pose alongside trees :D


                                           Isn't that tree a beauty ? 


                                               Making their ascent 

 
                                     Taking a chill pill on a tree branch :)


                                 The rains pouring down in all its might .... 


                          That smile would warm the cockles of any heart in this dreary weather :P


                A super-enthu trekker, Anoop, who braved the rains or may be he was water-proof :0